When Letting Go Becomes the Only Way Forward
There comes a point where you just have to release the outcome and let life open a new beginning for you.
I think I’m in that place right now.
I’ve been struggling a lot with trying to get ahead — with trying to understand what’s mine to control and what I’m supposed to stop resisting. I always feel like I need to work harder to feel accomplished, but the truth is… accomplishment isn’t about how much effort I put in. It’s about ease. It’s about peace.
And peace is an inside job.
It’s learning what you’re gripping and what your higher self is quietly asking you to loosen your hold on.
This morning I had this moment — almost like a click — where I realized something I’ve never considered. Every time I feel resistance or that heavy stuck energy, I pray and ask God to remove anything negative holding me back from my highest timeline. But today, it hit me:
What if it’s me?
What if the resistance isn’t some outside force trying to sabotage me…
but my future self trying to protect me?
What if “self-sabotage” isn’t the current version of me messing things up… but the wiser version of me saying, “Not yet. You’re not ready to hold what you’re asking for.” Not because I’m unworthy — but because there are still unconscious pieces of me that believe I am.
To receive more, I have to dissolve the parts of me that still can’t hold more.
The parts that still whisper, “You don’t deserve this yet.”
The parts that feel small even after all the inner work.
Lack isn’t about what we don’t physically have.
Lack is what we don’t yet see inside ourselves.
You were always meant to be seen.
Always meant to be heard.
Inherently worthy.
Inherently loved.
Enough, even when you’re messy and tired and unsure.
None of this is measured by achievement or perfection.
Being seen is being you.
Being heard is the way your heart moves the world around you.
When we finally rise into our power — our real power — life becomes softer. Freedom shows up. Ease flows into places that once felt impossible.
Self-acceptance is the key to it all.
The letting go.
The becoming.
The receiving.
Love yourself so deeply that your life has no choice but to rearrange around the truth of who you are. Isn’t that the real game of life? Returning to what was always there?
You are meant to breathe easier.
To live with joy.
To love your life with an open heart.
Because no one gets through life untouched. Everyone has moments they wish they handled differently. Everyone has hurt someone. Everyone is growing. And it’s all okay — because it’s all part of becoming.
Wisdom comes in the remembering.
And then the living.
